I absolutely went bats*it crazy on my wife about 2 times, after that I said all I could, there was nothing new to say, she knew where I stood. I decided that there was no reason to bring up anything old again.
While she was going to IC, a week later she addressed my outbursts to me (as instructed by IC) by reading off a list of things to change, I said you know where I stand, I have no reason to bring it up anymore. She said she noticed during that I had not.
Long story short, I think it is a good thing to tell the WAW how it is in the real world, and then let it go.
