Don't make the assumption that you know what I think or feel.
I just don't like that sentence in the context of your reply, it just seems to me that will put her immediately in a defensive position vs the rest of your reply.
However, I completely suck at communicating with Venusians, so I would defer to pretty much everyone else on your threads opinion first...
M: 41 STBXW: 41 D: 9 Bomb: 4/26/09
On board the D train now..
"Suffering is when we try to change what we cannot."