I don't want to "tick" him off by not doing anything. He sees MY non-action as an attempt to prevent him from doing what HE wants.
Right now, anything you do or don't do will make him angry. It is important to remove him and his reactions from the equation in your mind.
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As I have gone dark, I was a little panic'd this morning before leaving for work because I hadn't spoken with him, but stood my ground.
Believe it or not, this does get easier.
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I guess, I need to learn not to be so concerned about what is going to happen with my H.
Yes...
As time passes, and you put the focus on you and your life, you may be surprised how really wrapped up in your H and your M you were.
There is a Destiny Unknown in there, just waiting to be found....
Look for her, get to know her, help her to emerge....
You won't be sorry.
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I wish he could see how his rash (although he would disagree) decision is affecting he and I both.
And this is where the damaging thoughts continue.
He will see it. But it won't be until much much later.
The resources are wonderful. The archives are better. If you can follow some threads from beginning to end, you can see the changes in people. The growth. There is where you will find true inspiration.
"Acceptance doesn't mean resignation. It means understanding that something is what it is and there's got to be a way through it."--Michael J. Fox
