Everyone has spoken to me about GAL'ing, detaching, goals, etc. With a MLCer do I also need to set boundaries? In my sitch right now I'm not sure if I am not doing something that I should be doing.
Eric,
Boundaries are for you. For your sanity. They can be used to stop the cycling.
However, they can be difficult to set, and you have to be ready to reinforce your boundaries once you set them or your MLCer will not take you seriously.
When the time comes to set one, you will know...
"Acceptance doesn't mean resignation. It means understanding that something is what it is and there's got to be a way through it."--Michael J. Fox
