Hey AVER- when I called to make this appt with DB coach, last one, they offered 3 more at a reduced rate and I really had to thinka bout it since I had gotten D papers but figured, what the heck, I'll still need someone to talk with and since they are kinda like life coaches...you'll use them!
She basically stands by what she has been saying that my H does not feel needed. She also said that I needed to ask H if he intended, when he filed for D, that the kids and I would have to move from our home and sell it because that IS what would have to happen as we would not be able to afford the payment. She also felt that he did seem undecided (but may have taken the chicken way out) about the D after I asked him about talking with the kids. She said, that since we have basically been dark/nc since he left and really kinda before he left that maybe that is going down a cheeseless tunnel. She asked me if there were some family events coming up that H could be included in.
I am torn cause it really seems like with MLC, no contact is the way to go but I do seem to be going down a cheeseless tunnel and maybe I should do something different....
Gosh, any opinions welcomed!
M48 H53 M16 T18 S16 D13 SS30 H drops bomb PA/8-30-09 H leaves 12-30-09 D filed by H 2-10 H asks to come home 4-11 Piecing
