My apologies if I misunderstood what I thought J3B's thread was for and posted there in error.
SA There is no reason to apologize. Jacks thread is there to help you. If posting on his thread did that then he is happy because that was the whole reason for the thread. I know I shouldn't really speak for Jack but I am sure he won't mmind.
This board is here to help all of us. The only one that owns it is MWD. She put it here to help people because she couldn't understand why her parents who were much like you and your H, got D when she was the same age as your eldest children. So this long winded explanation is that MWD wants all of us to not get D and to have a better life. She is pro marriage and she has a mission in life to promote that.