Wow LR good to see you are still fighting. Sorry to hear about your money problems.
Im in exactly the opposite situation. She left me the house so Im OK financially as is she but our marriage is now gone.
Hurts like hell and she said she is never coming back to me. Great, then let some other lucky lady have me then. Im tired of being treated like stale bread and feeling abandoned.
Sorry for the rant.
You are a fighter and you love your H. Your H is a lucky bastard IMO and he does not even know it. My XW just gave up.
Ill check up on you in a couple of weeks to see how your doing. ((hugs)).
Me:48 W:55 M:22 T:23 Bomb:19Nov09 S:15Jan10 D:11Feb10 EA:Confirmed on 20Apr10 Fast track to her divorcing me
Good to hear from G450 hope things settle out the best way possible for you!
H4L Im ok, mojo still intact although waiting to burst it banks the minute H gets a job lol! Was back at work this week so fell asleep on sofa last night and missed you!
Interesting evening last night! Firstly H had a baking day and cooked my fav cakes and a nice chicken pie, he made little pastry hearts on the pie top, and said it showed it was made with love, a fine tasty pie it was too!
I fell asleep for a bit on the sofa and then H came over from his sofa as usual for our cuddle time, its wonderful he makes the effort to come over every night for a cuddle and watch something together even if its been a bit late and its just the late news and we head off to bed. Also Ive been getting real bear hugs for the last two/three times.
They have been advertising a program called Married Single Other.. its a comedy drama but from some of the adverts I knew it was too near for comfort, two ladies discussing leaving a husband.. Trouble was a the same time it looked good but also looked like a trigger waiting to happen and probably best avoided. Anyway just before it started H said he'd miss me cos he is off doing his hobby for a few days, I laughed and said "you'll be fine you wont die without me" and pottered off to the bathroom, came back and H is playing dead, I poked him a couple of times and he sat up laughed and said "see you were gone too long" I could feel tears forming so stuck my head down into his side for a cuddle, H knew he'd triggered some thing cos he kept kissing the top of my head.. The program was tough in places so at one point I looked up with a bit of a soggy face and he hugged me tight.. he still cant say anything but knowing he knows is enough.. at the end he pulled me up hugged me tight and said "common mrs bear its bed time" he also keeps calling me "mrs rabbit" which he stopped referring to me by my married name for months.. Ohh and Ive had two ILY's with no prompts what so ever lol! Do you know I think we just might make it!
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Once lost but now found and happily married again!
Rabbit - now that is an uplifting update! GREAT news. I needed an uplift today, don't think I'll get it from my own stitch, so I can steal from yours. You've been such a great friend to me, it absolutely put a smile on my face to see things working out for you
M39 W41 Two children WAW bomb dropped 11/7/09 Piecing Aug 10 - Nov 10 No longer piecing...Nov 10 Separation Jan 11 EA ends again Feb 11 Piecing attempt #2, Mar 11
Wow. Congratulations once again. You're the best thread going around here! It wasn't so long ago that we were talking about remorse and the lack of showing empathy of the returned WAH and all. Great.
And don't forget - H is back with love in his heart, and hearts in his pastries for all the hard work you did last year. You created this. I'm so proud of you - you are my idol!
Without the risk of needing a bucket missus the same could be said of you!
Im proud of you digging so deep and making your ODP changes, what ever happens S is going to get a fantastically calm mummy and H well if he misses the bus he will sure regret it later!
Whispers well you might not have said that yesterday when H told me about a phone call for a job in that COUNTY yesterday, and I went "you are so taking the p*ss Ive just got you back from there Im b*ggered if your going back again" and then regain my composure when H said "I dont want to go there either its a dump" ..
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W 47 H 47 M 24 T 30
Once lost but now found and happily married again!
Pastry hearts? Yeah, I think you're doing just fine!