Thank you so much for your reply HeartsBlessing. It's very helpful...a roadmap for me. You're confirming some things I suspected.

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me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4
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