New thread AGAIN Shiny, how do you expect us to keep up!

here's a quote from Home improvements:

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By Alaskangel: I love the fact that you two are working together on home improvements! My H started doing yard work and building planters out of driftwood for the driveway when he first started coming back around to wanting the marriage. It was a sort of "domestic" sign that he was giving me. He also bought a small freezer for our family room, so that we could store extra frozen food items. So, these are great signs as far as I am concerned that your H is really committing to working on things!



This is a big concern for me at the moment. H keeps saying he will do stuff around the house and then he just doesn't. I don't nag anymore, just ask once and leave it. If it really needs doing I end up doing it myself. 9/10 he doesn't seem to notice In the past he would have apologised for not doing something if I did it. So the acts of service are not really happening hmmm. I finally figured out that H's other big LL is words of affirmation. I think he likes to receive WoA and do AoS. So I have to work on saying nice stuff to him. I guess that's where being Queen of digs in the past must have really hurt.

Glad things are going well for you Shiny, how's the old nudge nudge wink wink sitch?

Fran

if we can be sufficient to ourselves, we need fear no entangling webs
Erica Jong