RuinedNoMore, I just got caught up with your thread...uhmm all I can say is "full speed ahead!" You are sounding like a "Babe In Total Control of Herself" (borrowed from Why Men Love Bitches, recommended to me from Flowmom-clearly you don't need to read the book!And I mean that as a compliment!)
I want to add that I recommend you don't set a timeline for when the A will end... You can set one for yourself, but I really think that once you start dating, you'll lose track of the time!
And how impressive that you "DJ" on the side!
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004