Aver, I understand the feeling of shame at people knowing. I find the social dimension of it pretty unpleasant. Even the people who want to help and support me...unless they are one of about 2 people who I would really bare my soul to, they can't really help me.

I'm intrigued by your work with The Work facilitator and would love to read about your experiences with it. I would consider doing that myself...


me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4
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