It really sounds like you're on the right track! Leave him wanting more of you! He seems to seesaw between his attitudes towards you, but the cool thing is that you have more control over the seesaw than you think.
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.