Allen, I really don't have the third party to tell him to drop OW. Everyone wants to turn the other way. I do have one friend, the one he went and talked to a few weeks ago and she told him to drop OW. But she is not one to call him and tell him that, she'll tell him if he comes to her for advice. Other then that, it's only me that will be telling him that.
I don't plan on saying anything to him, until he asks me "What's your plan" or "I don't think our M will ever work" blah blah blah his usual speech. I will see him again on Saturday, he is taking the kids so I can work. Maybe he'll bring up something then. Otherwise, I will just leave as soon as he gets here and act real busy as soon as I get home.
I know I've already asked this, but what should I do if he try's to call me tomorrow for my bday, should I call him back? Also, if he just texts me "Happy bday" should I reply with "thanks" or nothing at all.
Originally Posted By: Allen A
sometimes waywards take NC to mean you don't want them anymore... so self absorbed I know...
In the past when I have shut him out (granted only for a day or two) he has taken it this way. How do I avoid him thinking I don't want him anymore.
Together 16 years Married 12 years Me 36 H 34 D9 & S6 Separated 12/3/09 Confirmed A 1/25/10 Exposed A 1/26/10 H hired L, but not filed yet 1/27/10