Holy crap...I bought the ebook version of Why Men Marry Bitches (figured it was similar to Why Men Love Bitches b/c the latter wasn't available) and I see my old self all over it!!The me that WH fell for! I am far from being a bitch...this is actually reminding women to stay independent, don't "give it up" too easily, be yourself,be a little unpredictable, and unavailable. It does say to "give a little, then pull back," repeat.
Men want to feel like we chose them (as do women) and we didn't just snatch them up because they asked us...it actually makes a man feel better about himself if he has to earn his way into our life- our "full" life- because it means we are interesting and he is really special for us to make time for them!
I am half way through and eager to read more, then reflect and get busy. THANK YOU FLOWMOM-My confidence is growing again!
I'm really glad that it's giving you some insights newmama...I like your synosis. You're still the same woman that your H fell in love with! But the sitch requires some serious role-tweaking to remind him!
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.
