Newmama's right on there...

THe more you shut him down, the more he's going to pursue...

Just keep it up, i HOPE you can see the effect this is having on him... its a good sign... smile

AT this time it would be great to have some third parties giving him teh nudge, if you can get that happening great, if not, don't sweat it.

Try for even LESS contact now... the less, the BETTER.. it will drive him nuts... and also drive him away from OW.

If he's pursuing YOU, he's not chasing her... so keep up project shutdown.. great job smile