Mark...thank you so much for your efforts in finding that software. It did seem to make contact with my old phone but it wasnt able to access the texts...I think it may have been an issue with the cable or driver for the phone. It's a motorola 325i with a mini-USB connector and the cable wasnt specifically designed for it. I dont have a cable for my current phone, the samsung U750 (alias2).
I may have to order OEM cables for each of them. I did have a bluetooth connector earlier today but I took it back because at the time I couldnt get it to connect to my new phone. That may be another avenue.
I'm finding it weird that my ex isnt calling to say goodnight to D3 anymore. Theres no block, and I didnt say anythign to indicate to her she couldnt call. From my standpoint it doesnt really matter...and as I probably said, before we split up she never called to say goodnite to her...but I'm sure D3 on some level wonders why mommy stopped calling at night after doing it for 1.5 months.