Where do I go from here? Positive signs?

[ClingingToHope]

Let me guess, the ones giving you the advice to just move home are guys and the ones advising against it are women.

I've been out for 10 months. Looking back, I wish I'd never left, but once I was out pulling the nuclear option of just moving back in would have just cemented her feelings against me.

Of course, what do I know. I received my divorce petition two weeks ago. It hasn't been filed, but I'm 99 percent certain this M will end up in D.

I'd kill for my W to care enough to even go on a date with me. Of course, I don't believe I'm battling an OM or even a former OM. I did a bunch of snooping before Christmas and found nothing.

Instead I've been fighting the MLC imaginary OM. At first when I moved out, she was searching for an old boyfriend on google and FB.

What do you have to lose by trying the dating thing? What may happen if you refuse?