Holy crap...I bought the ebook version of Why Men Marry Bitches (figured it was similar to Why Men Love Bitches b/c the latter wasn't available) and I see my old self all over it!!The me that WH fell for! I am far from being a bitch...this is actually reminding women to stay independent, don't "give it up" too easily, be yourself,be a little unpredictable, and unavailable. It does say to "give a little, then pull back," repeat.

Men want to feel like we chose them (as do women) and we didn't just snatch them up because they asked us...it actually makes a man feel better about himself if he has to earn his way into our life- our "full" life- because it means we are interesting and he is really special for us to make time for them!

I am half way through and eager to read more, then reflect and get busy. THANK YOU FLOWMOM-My confidence is growing again!

by the way, it makes me wonder what is in the No More Mr. Nce Guy book and others that Gucci recommends...

Last edited by newmama; 02/25/10 03:35 AM.

me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004