T-- wow had a huge OH YEAH.. when reading ur post. YOU ARE RIGHT ON.. about the justificatoin.. they are waiting for us to loose it.. but we won't. nope. better than that.
ur x is unbelievable.. i know hte pain you speak of.. i happened to come by soemthing of x's today.. my own fault by I saw "into" his life.. i had been so far removed for so long i had not fogotten but not experienced the heartsag/stomach pit stuff.. ugh..
having ow around ur kids would be horrible. it was hell on me as well. no words...
hugs
M-20 years/BOMB 12/24/06 Moved out 3/12/07 D final 7/30/2008 finding myself again