Hopeless feelings

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I was at my MIL's picking up my kids, and H called her to see if I was there. He wanted me to wait for him to get home, he needed a check from me. I ripped out a check gave it to my MIL, and got out of there before he got there. When he got to his's mom's and seen that I wasn't there, he came over to the house. When he got here I asked what he was doing here, he said I need that check. I said I gave it to your mom. Then I walked away. An hour later he called, and I didn't answer. Then he called the house phone, and my D answered so I talked to him for a sec, and it was just to tell me that he didn't have to use that check. He wanted to know if I wanted him to bring it back. I said no, just hang on to it. I didn't want him to come back over.

Tomorrow is my bday, and I plan on NC at all. I made it clear to his mom that I wanted nothing to do with him on my bday. However, she is so afraid of hurting his feelings she will not say anything to him.