Try to start thinking positive thoughts. I understand how hard that is, especially after all the hurt and pain, but if you can start thinking positive and focusing on the positive, it will give you more energy and a better outlook with H. Expect good things like said above. Act and treat him with a happy smile. If you have had a bad day at work, tell him about it and treat him like you would any other friend. It is important to start by becoming friends again and talking. Gaining common ground. Then the other will follow.


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H left 4/1/09
I file 8/2/10
Divorce final 5/17/11
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