Yep, the hugs and the email were really taking their tole on me. Even in the last few days I have started to pull back. It has been much better for me. The problem is when I go dark she comes around and is all "warm and fuzzy". I am sure it's just a bit of guilt on her part. At no time whatsoever has she ever felt she did anything wrong or that this has any negative effect on me or our kids.
Anyway, thanks for the email as I really needed to hear that.
Me/W: 46/36 D7.6/S6 T/M: 7.5/6.5 Bomb 12/05/07 D final: 03/03/09