Right now, you need to think of her as a crazy a$$ squirrel....one that you want to eat out of your hand....
You jump....she jumps the other way....
Make sense ?
M1, yeah, realized that the other night. And decided to back off. I expected coldness for a while but things went right back to warm and friendly on Tuesday night. Smiles, eye contact generally being nice. Not to much touching going on, I try to do butterfly touches here and there but nothing overt. Got a long big hug on Feb 15th after long R conversation. I swear I think she lingered in the laundry room last night as she was leaving, I think she was expecting me to follow her outside, I did not b/c when I do nothing happens and she just gets in her car and leaves. This is the part where I think my W wants me to pursue her, if I give her what she wants she goes the other way so I just sit on my hands and wait.
I am still pretty sure she is MLC but not sure where she is at and not so sure she is that she is "crazy" as I thought she was before.
Formerly "missherlove"
Me49 XW49 M17 T19 S16 D20
Expose yourself to your deepest fear; after that, fear has no power, and the fear of freedom shrinks and vanishes. You are free.
