Doing hard time on the MLC chain gang.

[MHL]

More from lunch.

I told her that "IF" she decided that she wanted to "work on it" or "try somethings" with me, that in addition to her and I doing things together, we could work on her R with D13 and maybe get back to doing things as a "Family".

I went on to tell her that at first I thought that I was getting the short end of the stick by having the kids 24/7 and all the responsibilities of the house. Told her that it was actually a blessing from God and now I cherrish all the time I spend with the kids as a "Family". We just want it to be the whole family mean she was the missing piece. She started crying at this point. I also went on to tell her that I realized I ruined many of the family times (the 4 of us together) by being stress out and being in a mood. I told her I own that 100% and take full responsibility for that, but I would like to have another opportunity to try it again.

I made sure not to ask her to "work on it" instead I said "if you ever decided to work on it". I did say that I thought that if we were doing these things then there should not be any OP in the picture, she agreed. This is when she mentioned about coming back to the house and I told her that I had not envisioned her coming back just to "work on it". Told her again that "IF she DECIDED to work on it" that we should keep things the way they are, meaning living apart.