Hey, you sound very busy, but a very good book is "I Do Again." It talks about a seemingly perfect marriage that was ripped apart by a WAW. It took her two years to realize she did love and miss her H, but then it took another five years to convince him to remarry her. For the longest time, he'd have none of it.
It's written in sections by each so you can see what was going on in their heads.
Me: 47, Ds 17-13, D final 6-11 http://tinyurl.com/yk4e2tz http://tiny.cc/thread2 http://tinyurl.com/ydtphqu http://tinyurl.com/thread4 http://tinyurl.com/3sm78k6 http://tinyurl.com/thread6