OP, I suggested calling off Lawyers, in fact I called my lawyer before the lunch and asked, what it would mean if my W just dismissed the complaint. My L said that she could do so with or without prejudice (can't remember which one) but it means she could refile again.
I presented this as an option if we wanted to "work on it", I think she sensed an alterior motive on my part so I backed off and presented the Fred and Lisa scenario. Separated but no Divorce, really is the same thing.
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