Yup, bugged her Jeep. Like I tell her, ten years together, I hope I could read you by now. It really pisses her off when I "read her mind". I found out about her first EA with him by cell phone records too. Now she is under her dads cell plan. The truth is a beautiful thing. I wish she would come to her senses.
I can forgive her because this has been going on for over a year. To me everything that is going on now is just an extension of what we failed at earlier.
In every aspect of my life I learn as much has I can before I jump in. My marriage is the only aspect of my life I never thought about needing to learn and grow upon. I wish I would have started this learning experience a long time ago. Knowledge is king.