RuinedNoMore,
Your right, I would feel better if I expected the worst. I do have a feeling H will at least text me tomorrow to say "Happy bday" I don't know if I should respond with a "thanks" or not respond at all.

I am taking the kids and going to my sisters for cake and ice-cream, so it will be fun.


Together 16 years
Married 12 years
Me 36
H 34
D9 & S6
Separated 12/3/09
Confirmed A 1/25/10
Exposed A 1/26/10
H hired L, but not filed yet 1/27/10