Unexpected lunch with my W today and had pretty much an hour long R talk, again very civil and calm. I was planning on laying low and backing off but had to ask her about some legal dates comming up. I let her know that if we can get all this done the court dates could be avoided if her lawyer will get a proposal to my lawyer so we can work this out and get it out of the legal system. It was too much to discuss over the phone and so I offered to buy lunch she accepted. Bring on the 2x4's, I iniated the lunch.
I am trying to get the separation agreement done without having to respond to her complaint. If my lawyer and I file an answer and counterclaim, she will not like it and it could be a big step backwards. I will have to detail for public record her history of affairs and marital misconduct, I do not want to do that. I would rather hammer out an agreement and be done with it.
Last edited by missherlove; 02/24/1009:38 PM.
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