5) affairs thrive in the dark. Sometimes you need to show some light. Its all on how you word it. And who you tell. Goal is to kill the affair. Cause the marriage is over if you do not. You need to read up on this aspect now. You can offer up many excuses on why you do not want to expose. But they are that excuses. As you are covering her tracks.
1) Change that not likely to NO. Do not even touch her hand , shoulder or come within 1 cm of her.
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