I guess I'm just going to have to give my phones to my L as evidence since I cant print off the texts.

My ex started whining about driving D3 to preschool tomorrow. she sent me texts about it anf cnfronted me about it when she dropped D3 off.

Since D3's preschool starts when she's on my time, I essentially told her that and said she was welcome to meet us there. Its just dumb anyway for her to "drive her"...its not like she's doing me a favor since I will have already had to get up to dress/feed D3 breakfast.

If we were still together she'd likely let me drive D3 anyway and stay sleeping. I'm guessing she's doing it now to use as evidence that she takes an interest in D3 and important things like school.

I realized I have another set of messages saved on my old phone documenting a night where my ex didnt come home til late because she had a problem and the problem was her dad had gotten drunk and was missing somewhere around town so she was out looking for him.

Talk about codependency...thats not the kind of home I want D3 exposed to or growing up in.

And my ex texted me after she stormed off when she found out she wasnt gonna drive D3 to school and said I need to stop saying things about her in front of D3. I didnt even dignify that with a response...as anytime I have bad things to say about my ex, if it doesnt go in this board, D3 is either in bed or I go to a differnt room in a different level of the house. I'd bet anything D3 never said anything about my ex...she's just trying to get a rise out of me and get her jab in writing.

It's almost laughable that she thinks she can walk out on her family to be with OM and first expect her and I to remain good friedns and second to expect things with D3 to be nothing but "happy family time".


Me - 32
EX - 26
D - 3

BOMB: 11/02/09
EA/PA confirmed 1/29/10

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