MB, don't set yourself up to get hurt. There is an old saying 'blessed are those who expect nothing, for they shall not be disappointed'. If you expect the worst, the reality can only be a pleasant surprise. Can you plan something fun for yourself & kids?

Next Fri is our 5th anniversary. I'm moving that week, but def. NC that day. I fully plan on doing something nice for myself, b/c I would bet $1,000,000 that H will not acknowledge it in any way. Fully expect H to spend day w/OW.

That was how I handled X Mas, NYE, VD. And truthfully, none of those days were too terrible. smile Cried a little, laughed a little bit and I'm still alive!!!

M & H: 40
M: 5.5 T: 7.5
OW: 7/09 Bomb: 9/09
Sep: 3/10 H files 7/10

still m'd, unsure how to procede

Soapie:
1: http://tinyurl.com/vulcanized1
2: http://tinyurl.com/vulcanized2
3: http://tiny.com/vulcanized3