How do I expose the affair

[flowmom]

Let me clarify: I can't speak for Allen, but I wasn't advocating eliminating the children's access to their other parent, unless there is physical, emotional or drug or alcohol abuse or something going on. I was advocating for the betrayed spouse to go for primary custody of the children, rather than leave them primarily in the care of the cheating spouse, until such time that the cheating spouse started making more responsible (and less selfish) decisions.

Thanks PDT, I misunderstood.