So now I'm wondering if I'm compromised here. I can't imagine why H would snoop on me though?
You seem to be doing a great job of moving forward/on, not falling to pieces, etc. I mean to me, a stranger on the internet, but more importantly, to your H. as well.
Seems to me that that fact alone is probably a little bit jarring to your H. He may getting a little taste of rejection, so naturally wonder why it's all so 'easy' for you. I base this partially on my own sitch, and partially on what you have written.
I know when I felt "threatened" by H, his stance of utter assurance that he was doing the absolute right thing, I did a bit of snooping. I had never riffled thru any of his things during the 6.5 years we've been together. Over the last 6 months, insecurity has gotten the best of me, and I did look for proof a few times.
Make sense?
M & H: 40 M: 5.5 T: 7.5 OW: 7/09 Bomb: 9/09 Sep: 3/10 H files 7/10
