mb, NC is very hard for the first 3 days and then it gets easier.
Does your H check his email often enough that he will see your message? And are you prepared to tell him that you will be using email to communicate from now on unless there is an emergency?

Also...GAL sucked for me at first, too. I remember saying how it was supposed to be fun yet I resented doing it and I missed doing stuff without my WH. Then after a couple of months or 5-6 weeks maybe it became more enjoyable! If you do stuff with family or girlfriends, it is less painful and then you will actually start to look forward to your GAL plans! It really is supposed to help us become more fulfilled, confident, and strong.

Last edited by newmama; 02/24/10 08:01 PM.

me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004