Originally Posted By: mb28
I am slowing starting to GAL, mostly faking it, but I am having some fun times. My cousin is coming over tonight to hang out with me and make me dinner. Then tomorrow I've planned my own bday party, cake and ice-cream with my sister and her family.
Good for you mb! I'm faking it too...there's a lot of discomfort. But I'm going to keep forcing myself.

I think you should avoid communicating by phone. It has the disadvantage of being immediate and allowing impulsive words, yet it lacks the visual component of IRL communication. Email is safer and I recommend that you request that.


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