It's good that you're doing things, but I still don't get your obsession about your W and money. So far I haven't seen anything that shows that she's "money hungry". She just seems like a woman who is taking care of things on her own to prepare for a life without you.
You are still expecting change from her and it's not going to happen on your timetable whether you decide to D or not. That's the biggest thing you still haven't learned. You still seem to be waiting for a huge change in her and it's not going to happen.
She's not going to have any sudden revelations. Keep living for yourself and grow.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.