Step Number 4--Stop Going Down Cheeseless Tunnels "But the truth is the only real failure is to keep doing what hasn't been working, and, if your marriage is teetering on the edge, doing more of the same is downright dangerous."
Had you not understood your H better, TTA, would you have been able to make as many changes as you did?
Regardless of what I or others say, make sure it is what YOU feel is right. You'll live with you and your choices, not us.