Crushed- I'm sorry I must be retarded. I tried to search yesterday for "alt" in FB groups and there were a ton of results. Do you have a more specific group name?

I have caught myself up on your sitch. Dude, your W is so disrespectful to you on so many levels. She laughs at you when you mention ideas and things you have found to improve your marriage? She compares you to whomever she is involved with at that moment and you don't match up? Strange men/her exploits call and show up at your home - she invites them to the home where your children live?!

You shouldn't take responsibility for her lunacy, and it yeah it seems like she needs way more than anger management counseling.

I hope the one week truce does good for you two. You are a faithful and committed husband and that is honorable, but you deserve happiness too. Your ticket is only good for one short trip on this big rock. I hope it doesn't come down to you having to get a restraining order to remove the kids and you are left to raise them by yourself. I read where you have seen an attorney though - do you have to wait on her to initiate the divorce?

Last edited by Quart9; 02/24/10 07:45 PM.

Me-32
W-29
No kids
ILYBNILWY 11.20.09
Separated 01.10.10
Discovered EA 01.13.10
W admitted to PA 02.21.10
I filed for D 03.09.10