They do snoop.....it could help them vindicate their actions...what I did was let my wife choke on it. See there wasn't anything I had to hide...so she had free access to everything. It seems that land surveying boards and fantasy baseball weren't all that intriguing.
Quote:
HB, your participation in this forum is a gift to us...thank you so much smile
I wonder if you (or anyone else) can comment on how having young children affects the WAS/MLC and LBS dynamics?
Like many parents on this forum, I haven't gone dark or even dim because I am trying to keep things as "normal" as possible for our young children. That means H seeing them once or twice daily, H frequently being with them in our family home, continuing the bedtime ritual that we both participate in most days, me making brief, pleasant small talk with H so that our children see friendly interactions, etc. H and I believe that these things are helping the children to cope with the situation.
I need to read up on your stich....but this sounds more like cake eating WAS than MLC. Most MLC'ers I have experienced wouldn't do this (could be the kids are another thing that has ruined the MLC life). My wife really didn't want anything to do with the kids....which in turn made me the primary parent for everything and her just being there sometimes. It was sad to watch, but that is how it unraveled.
I won't go farther on the topic since I don't know your stich...but I will catch up when I can.
