She has to respect you before she will love you aNd being all soft and showing tenderness will not win you brownie points. You have to keep reminding yourself that most of the time, you have to do the opposite of what you think makes sense in this situation.
This is a VERY hard lessson for a newbie, and SOOO opposite of how I usually am, I may definitely PM you before our next talk (next Tue.) She wants to discuss "Next Steps Pt. 2" (when am I leaving, what do we do with the house and splitting things. Guh. Seems like she's moving so fast.
OM from two years ago is not in the picture right now but I'm sure she'll be running to him when I'm gone.
Eternal optimist
LBS (me):48 WAW:44 Married:11 T: 16 Separated: 02/10/10 Separated: one year first time, two years ago Sitch: http://bit.ly/baqySm
