Good luck nikblondiew,

Be prepared as you can, as these things can take on aspects that you just have not thought about, nor believe could even happen, but you will get through it.

I am still in the middle, so not much advice to offer, your getting good help, prepare as much as you can, focus on your wants and needs, and try to be accepting and compassionate for yourself and the emotion that will follow.


M: 41
STBXW: 41
D: 9
Bomb: 4/26/09

On board the D train now..

"Suffering is when we try to change what we cannot."