Hey Ant, just passing through and wishing you luck, I can't offer any advice on what to do, but you are doing well, and Bridge and Coach are giving you some outstanding advice.
I am hoping you make progress, and also learn from what they are telling you (I know I am, in just following along) and incorporate that learning into the new Ant.
Kudo's to you both Bridge and Coach for looking in on Ant, he is worth it!
M: 41 STBXW: 41 D: 9 Bomb: 4/26/09
On board the D train now..
"Suffering is when we try to change what we cannot."