4luv & Allen, I think it’s great that her H’s family is there for her. And hopefully they will pressure her H to end the A. This is where my in-laws are lacking. My MIL is mad about it, but won't say anything to her son. FIL said he is staying out of it, and even said that if this OW makes his son happy that's all he cares about, that was a huge shocker for me. Everyone; family and friends are turning their heads when it comes to my H’s A. I truly believe that if he had more pressure, it would end.
So I totally agree with Allen, if you can get everyone to NOT turn their heads, I would image it would really help end the A.
Together 16 years Married 12 years Me 36 H 34 D9 & S6 Separated 12/3/09 Confirmed A 1/25/10 Exposed A 1/26/10 H hired L, but not filed yet 1/27/10