So the WAW and I met for lunch yesterday and exchanged some small talk an had lunch and then she wanted to jump into the "R" talk. We discussed her coming into the house and moving more stuff and I explained to her the was totally unacceptable and that she had crossed the line. I was calm, cool and did not raise my voice but tried to make my point and set a boundary. I think she agreed. We talked further as to why she did this and she said that when she saw the pictures down and a necklace that did not belong to her, she was upset. She asked more about the necklace (I explained that I had found it on a walk) not sure if she believed me but that is in fact the truth. She then brought up the fact that she is tired of living like this and is ready to move on. She actually never came out and said the "d" word but at this point this is what she wants.
I explained to her that I understand how she feels and I want her to be happy and do not want to stand in her way of happiness but this this is not what I want at this point. She really did not want to hear this and continued to press me on agreeing with her on a "D" but I did not. She really wants me to pull the trigger on this and at this point I will not do it. If she really wants this, she will have to do it on her own, I will not agree with her on this nor help or enable her at this point!
So, after being with her for about 8 hours we kissed each other goodnight and parted ways. Not sure where this is going at this point but I have to say that I am not feeling very good today! But, I am not ready to give up yet, I am a fighter and will fight this until the end. Until I really know in my heart that it is over! Its just so , so hard - I know everyone on this board can relate!
NSD
Me 47 WAW 48 No Kids M-20y T-24y B#1 2-20-09 B#2 4-23-09-WAW Moved Out B#3 3-8-10-WAW Filed for D My Sitch:http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1823907#Post1823907
