I agree with you totally. The worse part of this mess is the OW around my kids. OW is trying to teach my kids "christian values", she vacations with them, and goes to all their special events. IT is very difficult to act as if this does not bother me. My ex watches my every move during these times. I sense he would love for me to go irate so he could say, "see I told you she was crazy".
Ex apparently wants to talk with me about another vacation he wants to go on with the kids and OW. It does not bother me half as much as it use to but still gives me that twinge in the pit of my stomach.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11