I just posted in my sitch about remaining friends w/ W then I read your POV reg nothing more/less- you were her H. Also rings true w/ me what you said about a toxic R.
It is too soon for me to come to any conclusions on what I will do...I hate that you are where you are, but it is helpful to me to see someone out in front of where I am.
Thank you for your support and I too am here for you.
