I've learned W is ready to file- per our conversation Mon- we want to do it very cheaply, she doesn't want to lay claim on the house- though she loves it.
Sad- but I told her it's a box w/o her there.
Looks like I'll have a new thread soon in Surviving the Big D...hopefully she can find whatever respect for me she can to keep things civil and "friendly"
I will not hold a grudge against her- and I will not hate her- neither of us deseve that
