This is what I was trying to say. How can he possibly claim he doesn't see Ryan enough and threaten to use a lawyer to get him more when the reason he doesn't see him enough is because he doesn't come to see him. I would explain this very clearly if it ever were to go to court.
And, like you say - if he offered to do something that could enhance Ryan's life - why would I not want that?
The thing is - Ryan is very high maintenance. He has meds and tube feeds and other medical procedures every couple of hours. That does make scheduling difficult and we have to rework things on the days he visits. Ryan is often ill, sleepy or having seizures. It is often less comfortable for Ryan to go out with his dad (he hates cold and snow) but we still push to get Ryan out for his visits as cancelling causes us all so much stress.
