Sorry things have taken a rotten turn for you. Haven't really been on much to keep tabs, apologies again. If I remember correctly, I don't think you two have had enough "away time". Either way, you're on the right approach, do what you need for you and let him have what he thinks he wants. IF it's meant to be, then he'll get the picture and change his ways.
Me 35/XW 33 S13 & S12 M: 10/17/98 OM & S: 07/08 D final 06/09/09 12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing" 06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10 06/25/10: Expecting baby #3 2/14/11